2 Different Funerals
As many of you know, about 20 days ago I buried my mom. It was a blessed and celebrated funeral knowing where she was heading. King David had two different kinds of funerals. He buried two sons. One was “good” and one was “bad.” One of His son’s was Absalom and we find part of his story in 2 Samuel 18. Absalom wanted to take the throne from his father. What did this mean? It meant he wanted to destroy God’s plan. For it is written that Jesus would be a descendant of King David and Absalom was going to get in the way of that. Absalom did not fear God. He wanted to mess up the Divine plan.
The king was shaken. He went up to the room over the gateway and wept.
As he went, he said: “O my son Absalom! My son, my son Absalom! If only
I had died instead of you—O Absalom, my son, my son!” (2 Samuel 18:33)
This was a funeral without hope, for it was a man that did not fear God.
The second funeral was totally different. It was a funeral filled with hope. You can read this story in 2 Samuel Chapter 12.
“After Nathan had gone home, theLordstruckthe child that Uriah’s wife had
borne to David, and he became ill. David pleaded with God for the child. He
fasted and spent the nights lyingin sackclothon the ground.The elders of his
household stood beside him to get him up from the ground, but he refused,
and he would not eat any food with them.
On the seventh day the child died. David’s attendants were afraid to tell him
that the child was dead, for they thought, “While the child was still living, he
wouldn’t listen to us when we spoke to him. How can we now tell him the
child is dead? He may do something desperate.”
David noticed that his attendants were whispering among themselves,
and he realized the child was dead. “Is the child dead?” he asked.
“Yes,” they replied, “he is dead.”
Then David got up from the ground. After he had washed, put on lotions and
changed his clothes, he went into the house of the Lord and worshiped. Then
he went to his own house, and at his request they served him food, and he ate.
His attendants asked him, “Why are you acting this way? While the child
was alive, you fasted and wept,but now that the child is dead, you get up
and eat!”
He answered, “While the child was still alive, I fasted and wept. I thought,
‘Who knows? The Lord may be gracious to me and let the child live .’ But
now that he is dead, why should I go on fasting? Can I bring him back
again? I will go to him but he will not return to me ." (2 Samuel 12:15-23)
Verse 23 impressed me the most.
This funeral was full of hope because he knew that through the baby’s innocence and his own fearfulness of God they would meet again. The only way to see those who are waiting for us in heaven is by having Jesus in our hearts. And we will say, ‘they can’t come to us but we will go to them.’